March, 19th 2016
Hi, my name is Shintya and I want to tell you guys about the Long Distance Relationship that I've been going through for these past 9months. All that I can say is that all of this are crazy!
You know why? Cause well the timezone and the distances are just so crazy. The 6 hours time different and the 7383 miles apart. And well now I want to tell you guys how I met him about 10months ago.
At first or I can say on May last year, he first text me on social media, called kik messenger he text me with just a simple "Hey". And from that simple hey, at first I have already think to not reply it. But, his name got my heart, lol. His name is Niall. Just same as my favourite band's personil name. NIALL. I CAN STAND IT I SWEAR lol. He's from the Scotland, UK. He's an accounting department student. And he's 21 and I'm 17years old.
I never thought that after that day we would text each other again cause well I didn't think that he would have been interested with me. Cause well for me, there's nothing special from me.
But well he proves it to me, he says he's serious, he even told my friend that he's attracted to me. And well at that time I didn't believe any of it. But I could say that I start to have feelings for him too.
Day by day passed, we skype for the first time on 18th of June 2015, and it got me to have a real feeling for him, he looked so much better in skype than the pict he use as his profile picture. We talked about everything in skype. Talk about our idol, he asked me about my hometown, I also asked him about himself, just so I can know him better, and From that day we talk like the world is just us two.
Until that day, he talk to me until 9am in Indonesia's timezone or about 3am in the Scotland. And I still remember the way he asked me to be his girlfriend. He's acting weird, saying everything sweet for me, and I swear it really got into me. I answer yes without any doubt. We were really happy at that time.
But then there's no relationship without any problem. In about our 2 months of relationship, we fight, we didn't believe whether we can work it out or not. We doubt each other. We are not sure that we really into this LDR or not. And then we broke up.......................
I try to distance myself from him. I wanna try to move on, but well the break up didn't make it long itself. We got back with eachother after about 2weeks of the break up. And from that day I could say that we were unseparated although the distance is so long. And then he's there for me through everything. When my mum was sick, he's there for me, although he's so far away, but he still care, and I still remember the first time he told me that he loves me, thats when my mum is dead, and I cried all the way to him, he comfort me, he told me everything is going to be okay soon, he told me that he will always be there for me. That's really make me feel better at that time.
But then the problems come again.
And this time it was me that confused about this whole thing. I didn't believe that he and I could work out, that we could meet eachother. And I still remember that time he tried to convince me that we could be ok. But me myself was being egoistic. I say that I can't be with him again. Then the second time we broke up again. And then we didn't text each other for such a long time, in about a month to two months if I'm not mistaken.
And then he texted me again, he told me that he can't move on, that he still love me, and well I lied to myself that time. I acted like I didn't care, I even told him that I have already moved on, which is come out I lied. But he still be himself. We tried to talk to eachother again. We tried our best to not let our egoistic side to be in the most part. And then, we decided that we want to give it a try again. We get back together.
It feels like we had broke up like millions time lol. But I start to think that maybe this is what God has planned for both of us. Even though we broke up several times but we always end up getting back together. And I swear I love him so much. I never dream nor imagine that I would date a foreigner, it was never in my mind until I met him a year ago. And every now and then when we argue or something like that he always told me that 'he's not going to break up with me'.
So many people didn't believe in this thing, but Im the one who is in this, and all I can say is this may be impossible for some people, but for those who is in this, it is a really special thing for us. We may be something weird for you but we really happy, and we are not even only playing about it.
I'm truly happy to meet him on social media. Eventhough we still can't meet eachother in person, but both of believe that there's time where God will make us meet eachother, so both of us are just going to wait until that time. And well we are going to be 9 months on 22nd of March, I'm soo Happy!! And well all I could told you all is that
" we may be separated miles and miles away, we may never meet eachother before, but once God has already had a plan for you, distance, age, are just a number, God will make you happy, so if you're still single right now it means that God still planning who He would give you to make your life a little brighter, a little happier, and a little easier. You just gotta wait. And the last but not the least is ' a simple hi could lead you to a million thing you could never dream of before' " - Shintya Theresha Silvana
That's all for today update! See you ♥
