Mum and Dad

The picture were taken in 13 September 1995 , almost 21 years ago, the most handsome groom and most beautiful bride, they actually show me how the true love should be, always together in their hard time or happy moments, always be there for eachother,  Dad is the most kind hearted man ever alive, he really do taking good cares of his family, the most patient person ever, what I really grateful for is he loves me so much, I know it.
He always tried his best to make me happy, I can say that all the things I wanted back then , he always gave it to me, but then on 7 August 2013 dad passed away, because of heart attack, sad? Yes, we shocked, dad was the healthiest person alive, he loved to eat vegetables and fruit, all of my family were really shocked, time was so fast, I only spent 15 years with my dad, the lesson that I learn from my dad is 'You don't need to be rich to be happy, but you need to be grateful for what you have so you'll be happy'

Mom is the strongest woman ever alive, she was strong when I know she is sad {especially when my dad passed away} she tried her best not to look sad in front of her children, and even when she is sick, she always show me and my bro that she is happy, the lesson I learn from my mom is that 'people may talk bad about you, but it still you who live your life'. And now I know that mum is happy there in the heaven (angel)

I know that both my parents is happy in the heaven with Jesus, but well I miss them, but I know they're happy up there, so see ya when I see ya again ����
Thats all for today's update!!

Sincerely,

Shintya Theresha Silvana

Graduated high school = friends gone

Graduated.Goodbye.Seeyou

Being graduated from the high school is the happiest moment, knowing that you'll face the new joy of life.

But have you ever realized what it would like to be separated from your friends?

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The pretty yet easiest things to say is Im so happy for being graduated from the high school, but have you ever realized what it is like for leaving school? For being separated from your friends? For not meeting your friends for everyday?

Well, for the first 2nd week of the finish of school I feel so happy for not going to school ever again, for not waking up early and being stress for school. I FEEL HAPPY AT THE START.

But then now I start to think what it is like to be in holiday but knowing that you will never back ever again, and got to miss your friends.

Or being separated with your friends, not having time to only hang out together? Have to plan to hang out 2 weeks earlier? It is the sad part of being graduated from high school.

I miss them, well I mean I miss my squad , haha yeah it is PERTEMANAN HEBAT cause we are great hahaha. The friends that I really can act silly, stupid, being mad at eachother but still got them at my back.

They are great people.

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And, the happiest thing in this month is got to meet them yeahhhhh, we havr like our time of the month to barbeque.

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yet in the happiest time, we also set up that barbeque to make a lil farewell, yeahh it is sad.
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I will get better as the time went by. No. I mean we will get better.

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cause I know that all of us will still remain friends hahaha

Yeah its kinda a short yet silly blog for today's update. But yeah thats what I got hahaha

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Oh and yeah i got picture too , and thank you for reading this updates.

Xx all the love xx

Shintya Theresha Silvana

The End of High School •﹏•

April, 7th 2016

  High school is coming to an end , people said "The best part of school is when you are in High School" , but no lol.
I could say that I enjoy my middle school more than it. It is funnier. But well in my high school I got so many experiences. All the good things, bad things. All of it I experienced in high school.
  Oh and yeah anyway I take accounting for my major. Yes! I take Vocational School. It's Immanuel Vocational High School. I could say all of the teacher there are all great people! But well I'm not going to describe the teacher. But I am going to describe the life I've been gone through for this past 3 years.
  Yessss!!!!! Let's start it ♪♬

1. FRIENDS
   So, the first is since I have been in high school, I got a lot of new friends (of course) but I also lost friends, well no I didn't mean that I and my old friends became enemies, of course no. Haha, what I am trying to tell you guys is that  me and my middle school friends come to a different direction, and I could say almost all my classmates in middle school choose Senior high school. And we are apart.
  But we still try to keep in touch with eachother eventhough I know that not all of my classmates did that. But well what I am trying to say is "Friends can not stay in your life for forever" and yes not all of your friends can stay in your life for forever. They have their own timing, but believe me, the one who stays for a long time might be your bestfriend!!
And I have mine, I have known them for 6 years. We fight a lot, and yes we make up so fast too lol. We even don't know the word 'sorry' is used for what lol. And yes their names are  Serlla and Lanna. They are my bestest friends. And also in my high school I found a lot of good friends too!!! I have so many good, not that I always find good friends everywhere, but I also find not bad friends lol, but it just fake friends, IT IS SO MANY you should be careful. They come and then stab you in  the back, but my good friends there are not like that, I know them well.

2. HIGH SCHOOL IS NEVER BAD BUT NOT ALWAYS GOOD
  I'm sure the headline caught your attention lol. But no I am not saying anything bad about it. Just if you think that High School is a terrifying place, the answer is NO. A big NO. It is a cool place to shape you to be a better yet a useful, and a handy person. You will be shaped as how your potential is. Believe me.  But yet if you think that high school is a cool place to be dressy, yet the answer for that is NO a big NO. It is a place to study, to get knowledge, to learn the things that  you can't. Not a fashion show that you should walk on the catwalk. Like come on, it is an  educational institute. Like what I said above, it is a place to shape you, to form you to be a useful person, and what I am trying to say in this second topic is "Life is never too hard, it is just you who is too weak" yes it is true! If you are strong life is never too hard, I can say it cause I have been through a lot of period in life, the most sad one yet the happiest (in my life) one. So you should be strong in High school!!!

And yeah well that is the 2 topic about High School. But I have so many cool story to be told to you guys here, so keep reading until end!!!!

1. We came from different middle school or different class, we NEVER try to set up to be a Compact class. WE NEVER DO THAT, it all are pure to come out from all of us
we didn't pretend to be all good in front the camera, it is a pure us. A pure 12 Accounting 1 (well it is my class). We fight a lot! We gossip a lot. But what come out, you know? One of the teacher there said she loves our class, cause we didn't talk that much and do whatever the teacher asks us to do. That's a reward for our class.

2. We NEVER comparing our class to the other class. It is never appears in our mind that we are better than the other one. But the teacher told us so.

3. It is NEVER been thought before that we all could be that class that is not much of protest but just do. We all scared and just do what the teacher ask us to.

And my most favourite part in High School is finding these club of crazy yet fun to joke with. It is Geng-13+J that people are the most crazy people, with 13 characters, the white, the dark, the comedian, the makeup artist, the hair stylist, and many more!! We do a lot of fun together. And yeah High School is coming to an end but yet I know that it is not the end of the friendship ,

" High School the place where depression gets stronger, Grades get lower, people get higher, friend count gets lower, stress is crazy, people turn into demons, panic attacks are more often and it changes people into the person they said they'd never become"

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" It all ends. High school doesn't last forever, 6 years from now you'll be whole again. You won't remember the names of the boys who made you cry or the girls who made your life hells. You won't remember the time you fell down the stairs in front of everyone. You won't remember the names of the teachers who made your cheeks turn red and tied your stomach in knots. You won't remember what it's like to want to die. You won't remember the times you laughed so hard your spit out your drink. Try to remember the people who bled with you when things got messy. HIGH SCHOOL IS COMING TO AN END BUT IT IS NOT AN END OF A FRIENDSHIP SO SEE YOU GUYS ON TOP!!!"

YEAH THATS ALL FOR TODAY UPDATE!! GIVE ME SOME FEEDBACKS♥♥

THE 7383 MILES APART LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

March, 19th 2016

Hi, my name is Shintya and I want to tell you guys about the Long Distance Relationship that I've been going through for these past 9months. All that I can say is that all of this are crazy!
  You know why? Cause well the timezone and the distances are just so crazy. The 6 hours time different and the 7383 miles apart. And well now I want to tell you guys how I met him about 10months ago.

  At first or I can say on May last year, he first text me on social media, called kik messenger he text me with just a simple "Hey". And from that simple hey, at first I have already think to not reply it. But, his name got my heart, lol. His name is Niall. Just same as my favourite band's personil name. NIALL. I CAN STAND IT I SWEAR lol. He's from the Scotland, UK. He's an accounting department student. And he's 21 and I'm 17years old.
  I never thought that after that day we would text each other again cause well I didn't think that he would have been interested with me. Cause well for me, there's nothing special from me.
  But well he proves it to me, he says he's serious, he even told my friend that he's attracted to me. And well at that time I didn't believe any of it. But I could say that I start to have feelings for him too.
  Day by day passed, we skype for the first time on 18th of June 2015, and it got me to have a real feeling for him, he looked so much better in skype than the pict he use as his profile picture. We talked about everything in skype. Talk about our idol, he asked me about my hometown, I also asked him about himself, just so I can know him better, and From that day we talk like the world is just us two.
  Until that day, he talk to me until 9am in Indonesia's timezone or about 3am in the Scotland. And I still remember the way he asked me to be his girlfriend. He's acting weird, saying everything sweet for me, and I swear it really got into me. I answer yes without any doubt. We were really happy at that time.
  But then there's no relationship without any problem. In about our 2 months of relationship, we fight, we didn't believe whether we can work it out or not. We doubt each other. We are not sure that we really into this LDR or not. And then we broke up.......................

  I try to distance myself from him. I wanna try to move on, but well the break up didn't make it long itself. We got back with  eachother after about 2weeks of the break up. And from that day I could say that we were unseparated although the distance is so long. And then he's there for me through everything. When my mum was sick, he's there for me, although he's so far away, but he still care, and I still remember the first time he told me that he loves me, thats when my mum is dead, and I cried all the way to him, he comfort me, he told me everything is going to be okay soon, he told me that he will always be there for me. That's really make me feel better at that time.
   But then the problems come again.

  And this time it was me that confused about this whole thing. I didn't believe that he and I could work out, that we could meet eachother. And I still remember that time he tried to convince me that we could be ok. But me myself was being egoistic. I say that I can't be with him again. Then the second time we broke up again. And then we didn't text each other for such a long time, in about a month to two months if I'm not mistaken.
  And then he texted me again, he told me that he can't move on, that he still love me, and well I lied to myself that time. I acted like I didn't care, I even told him that I have already moved on, which is come out I lied. But he still be himself. We tried to talk to eachother again. We tried our best to not let our egoistic side to be in the most part. And then, we decided that we want to give it a try again. We get back together.

  It feels like we had broke up like millions time lol. But I start to think that maybe this is what God has planned for both of us. Even though we broke up several times but we always end up getting back together. And I swear I love him so much. I never dream nor imagine that I would date a foreigner, it was never in my mind until I met him a year ago. And every now and then when we argue or something like that he always told me that 'he's not going to break up with me'.

 
So many people didn't believe in this thing, but Im the one who is in this, and all I can say is this may be impossible for some people, but for those who is in this, it is a really special thing for us. We may be something weird for you but we really happy, and we are not even only playing about it.

  I'm truly happy to meet  him on social media. Eventhough we still can't meet eachother in person, but both of believe that there's time where God will make us meet eachother, so both of us are just going to wait until that time. And well we are going to be 9 months on 22nd of March, I'm soo Happy!! And well all I could told you all is that

  " we may be separated miles and miles away, we may never meet eachother before, but once God has already had a plan for you, distance, age, are just a number, God will make you happy, so if you're still single right now it means that God still planning who He would give you to make your life a little brighter, a little happier, and a little easier. You just gotta wait. And the last but not the least is ' a simple hi could lead you to a million thing you could never dream of before' "  - Shintya Theresha Silvana

That's all for today update! See you ♥

HAKUNA MATATA , WANNA KNOW WHAT THE MEANING IS? KEEP ON READING!!!

Hii!!!!

Hakuna Matata means no worries for the rest of your life.

So, yes that's how I start to think about life.
You don't need to feel worry if you have God in your life, life is a drama that you should play in it.

It has it ups and down side. But only wise people will see it differently while those stupid lil ass see it as a PRETTY BIG PROBLEM.

But the things I'm sure about is that you don't need to worry about it, just live your life like it is the last day you'll live, so you will make it as perfect as what you want it to be.

I do sometimes complain about everything in my life. But then I saw another children who's not going to school or have what they want. Since then I start to think that why sometimes I ask too much for things that not too important while others want something important and they don't get one.

I start to think about my life. About what I got what I want but I still do not appreciate it. Sometimes I'm ashamed of myself.

I can't appreciate every little thing I have. I was like always complain about everything. Whether I do need it or not.

And then I feel like I need to stop my habit. I want to start to give thanks for everything I have.
Cause like what the quotes said "YOU'LL NEVER KNOW THE TRUE VALUE OF THE MOMENTS UNTIL IT BECOMES MEMORIES" its true!

I got you some quotes about life, here it is:

1. Everyone is necessarily the hero of his own life story.

John Barth

Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/j/johnbarth382049.html#do1pT1Dh2QQUWMEe.99

2. To inspire a singularity of focus, a challenge must be important to you and it must be something you feel you should do now in this moment. If it's trivial or not time-bound, you won't engage. So in selecting your next challenge in life, choose one that is meaningful and will demand your complete concentration.

Brendon Burchard

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And friends do take a part in our life. Whether they bring us to the true value of life or the opposite.

And then here comes some of STANDART OF LIVING that I got from some sources:

1. Standard Of Living
DEFINITION OF 'STANDARD OF LIVING'
The level of wealth, comfort, material goods and necessities available to a certain socioeconomic class in a certain geographic area. The standard of living includes factors such as income, quality and availability of employment, class disparity, poverty rate, quality and affordability of housing, hours of work required to purchase necessities, gross domestic product, inflation rate, number of vacation days per year, affordable (or free) access to quality healthcare, quality and availability of education, life expectancy, incidence of disease, cost of goods and services, infrastructure, national economic growth, economic and political stability, political and religious freedom, environmental quality, climate and safety. The standard of living is closely related to quality of life.

Read more: Standard Of Living Definition | Investopedia http://www.investopedia.com/terms/s/standard-of-living.asp#ixzz3s8DPW477

2. BREAKING DOWN 'Standard Of Living'
The standard of living is often used to compare geographic areas, such as the standard of living in the United States versus Canada, or the standard of living in St. Louis versus New York. The standard of living can also be used to compare distinct points in time. For example, compared with a century ago, the standard of living in the United States has improved greatly. The same amount of work buys an increased quantity of goods, and items that were once luxuries, such as refrigerators and automobiles, are now widely available. As well, leisure time and life expectancy have increased, and annual hours worked have decreased.

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So yeah thats it about life!!!! Thanks for readingg ����✌����

MY LIFE AS A DIRECTIONER

I'm a 17 years old teenage who have been so in love with One Direction for almost these past 4years, I first know them from my brother who always listens to What Makes You Beautiful everyday. And from that day I swear no idol is better than One Direction, better than Liam, Harry, Niall, and Louis. They are everything fans could ask for in an Idol. And here is some of the Point from me for being a Directioner:

1. THERE'S A SMILE IN MY FACE EVERYDAY

      They really changed my life, they are the reason that I’m happy and that I can put a smile on my face every day. I could listen to their music without getting bored.

       The bad thing about that is that I get procrastinate and don’t get things done, that’s the down side of being a Directioner. But then again they are too good to stay away from. Whenever I feel down I listen to their beautiful voices, It calms me down and I can put back on a smile on my face.

       They are always here for me and I will support them till the very end.

2. FIGHT FOR OUR BOYS

     I know a few Directioners, they are in college too, some of them live in the same area as me and I know some of them from the internet.

       I love the fact that we are dedicated, passionate and always ready to fight for our boys. But I hate that fact that our ships tear us apart. And yeah we are a bit rude but it’s fine because we aren’t perfect.

       But also the fact that we Directioners are possible to make fun of the boys to the whole world, but we can still be respectful to them as well. I think we are the only fans who does that about that making fun.

3. They’ve taught me so many things

    They’ve changed my life, for the better mostly, they cheer me up when no one else can, they’ve taught me so many things, they’ve inspired me

4. The Directioner family

    I love the Directioner family, for the most part. I’m one of the people who thinks the Larry shippers are tearing the fandom apart, but I don’t want to be an antagonist about it.

     On a happier note, I have made so many wonderful, life-long friends through One Direction, and part of me wishes I could personally thank them for that because while I can’t talk to them every day and get advice from them and have them cheer me up, the friends I’ve made through them do all three of those things for me. It’s all such a huge part of my life and I wouldn’t change it for the world.

5. I have no idea what it is

    My favorite member is Liam. I have no idea what it is that he’s done, or what t is about him but I am ridiculously attracted to him. It’s actually insane how strong my connection to him is. I feel like I know him and he knows me, and we’re so similar.

     I’m not just saying that as some kind of crazy fangirl, genuinely, I have a lot in common with him, and he has a lot in common with me too, and it’s pretty cool. We like the same music, we have a similar sense of fashion: I listened to this music and even dressed this way before I even knew of his existence.

     Him, being exactly the way he is, just reminds me that I’m not alone and it is okay to be different and not apply yourself to gender norms or society’s expectations. I really love him for that.

6. WHAT I WILL DO WHEN 1D TAKES A BREAK

     I didn’t want to talk about this at all but I just have too..

     One Direction is going to take a break, something that they really needed but that I don’t want it to happen although they deserve it. I don’t want to miss my boys.

    A year is what they said, in that year I will keep promoting their stuff on my blog, I will keep on sharing stories, I will update you on what they are doing. I won’t be gone as well, although I know that school takes all the time at the moment and I’m going to work practice soon too so I need to find some time to fangirl-ing over them.

   So guys for now I will still be here in the year that the boys will be gone, because I can’t live without them and you guys either I think.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Hi!!
So long not posting here.
So well I'm pretty busy for the last few days

But got some free time today, so here I am laying in Bed and typing this story.
And well, the topic is Long Distance Relationship, why? Lol
Well for the past few months my friends and myself has been so obsessed with some kind of LDR love story,
We got so inspired! They're cute, (the couple who do LDR and had met their couple)

But, well here myself trying to tell you guys, lol
Well me myself is doing a LDR too haha lol
Not for 'pamer' tho. I am just trying to tell you guys that LDR is not for people who doesn't want to wait, LDR is for people who wants to try to solve everyproblems together, who wants to talk heart to heart with their couple not for people who only want to be a winner in an argument.

And well, myself, Im not doing an easy LDR at all, my boyfriend well his name is Niall.  And we are hardly trying to keep in touch with eachother, cause he's so busy, and the time difference was so long 6hours. Can you imagine that? We only get time to text at 10/11pm (Indonesia time or around 4/5pm in Scotland time).

Yes, he's from Scotland, and he's an accounting student. And well we study the same major and sometimes we share our lesson lol.

He got so busy with his life, and me too as well, I got school life and he got uni life. Thats hard tbh.
And because of that he ever try to break up with me cause he said that he doesnt want to see me upset cause of him. And then we broke up. But 2weeks later he asked for an apologise. I forgave him. And we got back together, well  since then we try to solve every little problem together by talk more and trying to tell eachother about ourselves.

He's really good with me now. But yes he's still texting me at 10/11pm lol, but he gives me my time to rest, and when I wake up he always ask me 'are you still tired?' 'Why are you up so early? Its still 3am in Indonesia right?'.

He is not a sweet guy at all tbh, but at least he's all I need.

So, the thing is that if you want to do a LDR, you need to be really patient!!! If you're not then I don't think it'll work out, well I'm not saying that my relationship is goals and it has worked out, but Niall and I are still trying to work everyproblems out together, and we still hope we can get through it :))

Thank you that's all about LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP short story.
Hope it can help you a lil bit. X